A request gives space for our loved one to come towards us; a demand repels immediately to retreat and defend. Issuing demands makes us feel that we are owed something; requests acknowledge the autonomy and free will of all beings, and that no one owes us anything. Requests can be received/heard as demands by those with a wounded heart or fearful inner child, creating the same physiologic effect as a vindictive demand, but offered with an abundance of care and non-violent communication, met by an open mind and heart yearning for connection, an incredible opportunity for growth and healing arrives.
Read More“But sometimes, our perfect soulmate finds us at the wrong time. It can be such a painful experience when that depth of connection is so potent, and yet, there are just pieces to the connection we can’t make fit together.”
Read MoreI learned that true divine love comes in as three types (or a mix): a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Now, I believe the reasons are prevalent in every relationship we create in our life, from the one we create with our barista, to the ones we create with our intimate partners. But sometimes, these intimate relationships have one specific reason and the more we accept the fact that these reasons are here for our higher learning, the more gracefully we are able to let go when the lessons are complete.
Read MoreWe are in the midst of an energetically powerful time - with several retrogrades, eclipses, and Cancer season here, emotions are running high and it is imperative that we take the time to get silent - to listen. Retrogrades always remind us to slow down, reflect, think, and then eventually receive insights in various components of our lives. Others may feel as though they have a burst of energy and are riding waves - this is still representation of an invitation to drop-in with yourself and recognize how you are using this power. This energetic gateway is a look into power and independence - how can you harness both physical and unearthly power in the highest and best ways? Unearthly power is not given lightly; it demands responsibility, compassion, caring, and sharing. The knowledge that may be gained during this time will teach humility and give a newfound excitement to share your unique gifts, talents, and abilities with the collective.
Read More2018 taught us that releasing toxicity is the only way to move closer to our manifestations. The blocks that bombarded us from all angles have been brought to our attention. And, depending on how much we leaned in to the guidance we received and how much surrender we allowed for ourselves, many of the obstacles were removed - gracefully or forcefully.
Read MoreYou feel it deeply, the urge to do more. It’s building up like a tidal wave, gaining momentum. You are no longer able to tolerate your old way of life - old patterns, relationships, situations, and career, in particular. Every day feels like a struggle for motivation, you catch yourself day-dreaming frequently. Yet, you feel a gap, or resistance, between your life today and the life you know you were meant to lead. Your need to make a difference on this planet grows every day and you interact with people that, by whatever means, remind you of that desire. Maybe they have that one connection, or they are wearing or talking about something in that realm, or show genuine enthusiasm about the same passion.
Read MoreTwin Flame relationships tend to be the most passionate, the most chaotic, and the most powerful connection in the Universe. It is said that when Twin Flames find each other, the vibration of the unity consciousness grid rises up even more, because when these two souls find each other, their energy shifts from duality back into unity
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