The Vibrational Frequency of Worth ~ September Conscious Communication

September 4, 2022

I’m coming to realize that self-worth is not a matter of ‘having it’ or ‘not having it’. Self-worth is a spectrum of varying degrees, fluctuating moment by moment, day by day. Its highly susceptible to circumstance in its unrefined state, perhaps skyrocketing with an instance of external validation & plummeting during times of discord. As our soul evolves, so does our self-worth by consequence of natural harmonic frequency. One cannot avoid a steadier, more consistent sense of self-worth as the maturity of the soul expands, because like-vibration is a natural Law of the Universe.

Now, that is not to be confused with ‘success’. One’s self-worth can be high enough to feel a sense of accomplishment, to elevate as milestones are reached, but just because this worth is high enough to co-create positive manifestation, does not mean it’s high enough to be unshakeable, impervious to the lesser degrees of which come with acts of self-sabotage. 

For example, after several misaligned relationships, my self-worth was sub-par. It took huge effort to raise my vibration to be able to harmonize myself with a partner that was in my highest & best. However, once I got there, I was not immune to residual low self-worth fears & doubts. I was not high enough to maintain enough consistency to block out those devilish little programs, which expressed themselves as distrust, jealousy, and insecurity. Becoming aware of these outdated neural pathways opened the door to the next upleveling for my own journey to heightened self-worth, to raise these degrees higher day by day.

I’m learning to be unshakeable, unfuckwithable, in my worth by holding boundaries against anything that tries to prod at my old wounds, trusting myself, examining my beliefs, and actually doing the Work to lift myself up. It has not been an easy process. And nor is it complete. I am still extracting my sense of validation from outside sources and pulling it back into myself.

This is not to say I can no longer enjoy the reflection in the mirror as expressed through others and external situations, but I now see them as the reward itself, the reminder that I have done the Work to put myself in the frequency that I now get to see the outside world reflecting back to me - the co-creation of my own Reality. But I no longer attempt to pry my worth from the external world, chipping away at rocks looking for a glimmer of gold.

I allow my magnetism to bring me that quality of life of which I know I deserve. I trust full-heartedly that what I want, wants me, and the Universe can’t help but lead me right to it, and it to me. Because the Universe only ever desires harmony; to match vibration and to eliminate dissonance. For this very same reason, the electromagnetic pulses of our hearts sync up just by being in proximity to another.

The higher frequencies of self-worth vibrate so refined, the smaller their quantum, or fluctuation. Every vibration is measured, scientifically, as a high point and a low point. The more finessed the vibrational frequencies are, the less time spent in either the ‘high’ or the ‘low’ - it is most often found at the midpoint - the stable, resonant, omnipresent Source of Creation. The midpoint is considered Source because it is the Void, or the perfect balance of the Universe, where energy hangs just briefly in the midst of action/inaction, good/bad, high/low, etc. Therefore, the higher our self-worth, the more time spent as close to our True Nature as possible - an expression of the Divine incarnate, on a journey to come back to itself.

Written by: Jaelyn Harly

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