For the women who have finally chosen themselves

You are more concerned today about choosing what’s in your own highest and best and are not heeding to others anymore. You are more excited about your projects than who’s party you’ve been invited to. Your self-care game is on point - you’re prioritizing your health before social status, choosing to stay in and focus on your goals rather than succumb to the fear of missing out. 

I see you, choosing yourself over relationship. I see you spending your time daydreaming about the life you are creating for yourself, instead of that crush that doesn’t show up in the ways you deserve. He can’t keep up and he knows it, and he’d rather watch you rise to the top than to fall at his feet. But what he doesn’t know, is that he can’t catch up with you once you’ve committed to your goals. 

You are finding your “sacred no”, and not permitting anything into your life that is not in alignment with your “yes”. You are impervious to others’ judgments about where you ‘should’ be, and instead walking your path to the rhythm of your own soul. You released your obligations that kept you small, and you cut people out of your life that were toxic to your growth. 

You’re raising your frequency and some can’t keep up… they’re vibrating right out of your field. You’re putting fear far behind you and and the ones who are supposed to be in your life are raising their vibration just like you are. 

You’re confident that who’s meant to be in your life is going to meet you on the path. You’re not looking in the rearview mirror anymore; there’s nothing left for you there. The lessons you’ve grown through are downloaded into your very cells, into your soul, and you don’t waste your time thinking them over anymore. What’s done is done and you know that the path ahead is bright - because YOU are the one creating it. You are drawing the map to your own destiny. And you are certain that what’s meant for you will never miss you.

You are rebelling against the system that has locked you in place. You are stepping out of the box of tradition and going beyond what’s normal or acceptable - realizing these are illusions anyways.

The things you are manifesting are coming in with potency and speed - not by the hands of anyone else, but by your own Divine Feminine power. The creative force within you is a force to be reckoned with and some can only watch as you don’t just weather the storm - you become the storm. 

You’ve mastered the art of trust and surrender through your faith in the process. You gave up everything - your perception of self, your old ambitions that don’t fit the woman you’re becoming, the relationships that didn’t serve you, and the insecurities that all these things created. You are allowing the flow by opening your hands and opening your heart. Gratitude fills your mind for everything you’ve gone through, for there is no resentment weighing down on you anymore. You’ve chosen to see the blessings over the pain, and your breath is easy because you know deep down it was all necessary to become the woman you are proud to see in the mirror.

And every single part of the process has been worth it. Because you finally know that you are living your life for YOU. You are complete and whole within yourself and there’s nothing anyone can say that will take that away from you. No one, no thing, can chip away at your soul anymore because you’re cloaked in confidence and embraced by mystery. They can’t understand you and it’s not your job to try to make them get it anymore. Your only obligation is to play within the creative spiral of your own life; to flow through the process with ease and grace that is your soul’s essence.

Baby, you’re shining. This hasn’t been a ‘hot girl summer’, it’s been a ‘I love myself so much I don’t care what you think’ summer. You’re posting pictures not to ask for attention, but to step into your Allness and show up authentically - you’re over caring about how many ‘likes’ you get or the new followers from hot selfies. You came out of your shell not for anyone else, but for yourself...to appreciate your own beauty that radiates from the inside out. 

Own it. This Universe holds you like no one else, because you are a Divine extension and expression of it. You were not made to play by the rules. You were made to experience yourself in the entirety of human emotion, to weave your own sacred web, and to enjoy the process of creating a life that’s worthy of you. 

So darling, keep going. No one owes you anything, but you owe it to yourself to shine like the sun, radiant and full of grace. Your loyalty is to yourself. You cannot, and will not, be stopped. All of your wildest dreams await you.

Blessed be,

Jaelyn Kohl